How would you like to..

Be more resilient, more motivated, and more fun to be around?

Know for sure that you are on the right path?

Be a better father, more present with your family?

Be a better husband, more engaged in every aspect?

Be More confident, play bigger and enjoy life more?

Be clear on what you want and where you’re heading?

Define and achieve your own success at a deeper level than you ever thought possible to become an Intentional Man with
clarity, passion, and purpose!

Then it's time to Man Up!

Reclaim your mind
REDISCOVER & REIGNITE YOUR PASSION
MAKE your Work, relationships, and
life experience more meaningful

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Do you ever find yourself asking
"Is this all there is?"

WORK, EAT, sleep, PAY BILLs, veg out, catch a buzz, get off, PAY more bills, try and make the family happy, wake up, do it all over again. are you just going through the motions?

Man Up is for men ready to take back their life power - now! Reclaim your mind from habituated conditioning, redefine success on your own terms instead of the ones you’ve adopted from culture and childhood programming. It’s playing your own game that YOU define, then playing it bigger because it actually means something to you. It’s finding alignment with your natural strengths and deeper desires that are still undiscovered, hidden, or buried under a lifetime of limiting stories, experiences, and beliefs. It’s putting in the work to unearth YOUR path of fulfillment beyond the unsatisfying treadmill of the achievement-indulgence loop. (Don’t get me wrong, I love the resources achievement provides, just with a deeper meaning to it which is even more motivating.)

Are you still striving for security and a golden wheelchair as your ultimate success?
A hospice nurse told me that her patients that waited too long to live fully were bitter;
they ran out of time and were physically incapable to act on their dreams,
or had no way to produce more resources to afford them.

I refuse to wait, How about you?

Book a 25 minute chat and let’s see if we click.

Am I Doing What I’m Supposed
To Be Doing With My Life?

This nagging question haunted me for decades (in spite of any success or achievements). I didn’t hear it clearly (minds are noisy) and I certainly didn’t realize the toll it was taking on me. It showed up as permanent dissatisfaction with any and all efforts never being enough. 

Frustrated, grouchy, and always on edge, I’d snap at my wife and kids for the least little things that had nothing to do with them. My mind constantly contorting itself, trying to figure out “how to get there.” 

When will I be rich enough? 

When will all of my problems go away? 

Will I ever be out of debt?

When will I feel satisfied? 

Is joy even a possibility for me? 

And then there was a moment at my first retreat, ManCamp 1, when the question that had always been there lurking in the shadows, “Am I doing what I’m supposed to be doing?” evaporated. For the first time in my life I finally had the thought, “THIS is what I should be doing.” A huge subconscious weight lifted from me in that moment. A sense of relief and clarity swept over me like never before. I also instantly knew that this burden could be lifted for every other man at the retreat, and likely in the whole world. 

My work was cutout for me. 

A task I could never complete. 

But strangely it came with a liberating sense of satisfaction. 

A peace and calm came with it. 

I didn’t feel like I had to be in a hurry to get there or accomplish it (that was new!) 

I realized that in the past, no matter what I ever did or how well I did it, there was a deeper part of me that must have known I wasn’t on the right track. You could see it as torture or as a gift that relentlessly dogged me from the inside so I’d keep searching for something different.

I’m not suggesting that you can’t figure this out on your own. A man lives his life in stages and this is just a symptom of being between two major stages. It can be a dark time. I’ve seen it referred to as a “tunnel.” Maybe you’ve been through one before, or knee-deep in one now.

Men like to figure things out for themselves, but it may take a while, possibly much longer than you want to wait and take more of a toll on your life experience than you want to endure.

Here’s some truth, if it’s tolerable it’ll likely last much longer until you find it unbearable, motivating you to take action. We don’t like change. We resist it. If left to our own natural bias, most men will choose to do nothing and accept the consequences, calling it fate. Oddly you should consider it a blessing if you’re already unwilling to tolerate it any longer because pain is always the fuel to change. Can you look back on anything good in life and dispute it was the result of you taking some sort of action step?

From the moment I decided I was going to figure it out for myself, it took 6 years on a very meandering path of nearly full-time exploration, experiences, experiments, processes, courses, reading, meditation, healers, coaches, and retreats etc. I’m reluctant to tell you how much money I spent in the search. 

If you want to cut that time down for yourself, I can help. I’ve lived it and I’m extremely skilled at quickly helping others make the necessary tweaks that have the biggest and fastest impact. If you have a gut-sense this is something you should explore, then take action in the moment before it passes, which inevitably leads you forward on the right path. Have you let other opportunities slip through your fingers in the past by waiting just a minute too long and dishonor your intuition and let your courage fade? I know it’s scary, it has to be or probably wouldn’t be worth doing.

Click the button and schedule a discovery call with me. I’ll ask some great questions to assess where you are, your current challenges, and where you’d like to go from here. I’ll reflect back my insights, give you some free coaching, and if I think I can offer you more support I’ll share that too. At the end of our 45 minute call we can make an empowered decision if it makes sense to work together or not work together and I’m OK either way.